Marriage is a God-ordained dance, an art form that requires participation between partners, and there’s no greater area for intimate participation than in the area of sex. This is where the dance of marriage finds its purest, most emotionally honest expression.
Part of God’s design for marriage is for the two of you to find mutual fulfillment in one another, and while a wonderful component of that fulfillment comes through helping one another achieve your dreams and goals, through laughing together, through praying together, and through scheming together, there is no more immediately deep fulfillment than sex.